剑灵润泽泉在哪个区域:值得你去花时间体会的5条人生感悟

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值得你去花时间体会的5条人生感悟

生活是什么呢？有无数种答案，在不同的时期，在不同的境况下，每个人都会有不同的回答。或许，这就是生活让人着迷之处，不经意间，会有太多的意料之外的事会发生。生活，永远都不会有停歇的时候；人生，是一场冒险；生命是一个奇迹。

真实地活出自我远比向他人宣扬布道意义深刻。

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I want to share something special with you today. I will do it just once because I do not like bragging or talking about myself too much. I want to share with you life lessons that I have learned in life (my life hasn’t been too long yet, that is why I am going to stick to just 5 lessons) and that have chiseled my life into a balanced and harmonious existence.

我想在今天与各位分享一些与众不同的东西，仅此一次，因为我不喜欢讨吹嘘，也不喜欢过多的谈论自己。我想与你分享的就是我所领悟到的人生智慧（因为我自己的人生阅历有限，所以这就是为什么我只与你们分享5条人生感悟的原因），正是因为这些感悟我的生活才会变得更加平衡与和谐。

Do you sometimes read blogs or books and just wonder “Does this person really know what he/she is talking about?” The advice that you read seems completely illogical, impractical and just useless. You read “Smile, be positive and everything will get better.” But how can you do that if you have a sick child or you have just lost your job? Maybe you hear “Stop eating so much, start exercising every day and you will lose weight effortlessly.” Yeah, right, like this is THAT simple … Do you know what I am talking about here?

当你在阅读博客或书籍时，你是否会发出这样的疑问，“这家伙真的对他自己所说的东西了如指掌吗？”你所读到的建议看上去完全是不合逻辑、不切实际和没有实际用处的。你读到这样的话“微笑，积极地生活，那样的话一切都会好起来。”但是，假如你有一个生病的孩子或刚刚失业的话，你如何才能做到这点呢？也许你会听到“不要吃得太多，每天都有锻炼，这样你就可以很轻松地减掉肥肉。”好吧，这听上去好像事实就是如此简单。但是，你知道我在这里想要说的是什么吗？

I do not want to be the person who preaches without living my truth. I want to help people find balance in their lives but I share only tips and advice that have worked for me already. I am not the person who will say “Jump!” but stay behind in the plane. This post is not about me, it is about lessons that I want to share with you and that I hope will help you on your journey towards balanced and peaceful living.

我不希望自己成为只会讲大道理却不身体力行的人。我希望能够帮助其他人找到生活的平衡点，但是我只分享那些对自己有效果的建议和意见。我不是那个口口声声说“往下跳！”，却同时又站在飞机里的那个人。这篇博文所谈到的不仅仅是我的生活，还是我想与你分享的我所体会到的人生感悟，我希望这些建议能够帮助你过上一种平衡、宁静的生活。

1. Patience and perseverance.

1.耐心和毅力。

Thomas Edison said “Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety nine percent perspiration.”

托马斯爱迪生说过“天才就是百分之一的灵感加上百分之九十九的汗水。”

This is a truth that I have learned in my life. We often want results to appear overnight and we give up too fast when something does not work out the way we want it to.

其实，我早就在我的生活中亲身体验到了这条真理。我们往往都希望事情在短时间内就有成效，当事情不如我们的意愿时，我们常常就会过早地放弃。

I am still leaning patience in a lot of areas (I am not sure when I will get my toddlers to use the potty and sometimes I want to throw in the towel) but I also know that this is the only way to reach my big goals.

在许多方面我都在培养我的耐心（我不太确信何时该让我的孩子们开始用便壶，而有时我只想放弃），而且我也知道这是我实现自己的大目标唯一方法。

When I started this blog I didn’t put much effort into it. I threw something together hoping that miraculously it will find its own readers and it will be a success (Here is a flash from the past – exclusive screenshot of Balance In Me when it was born – click here). Of course, that never happened. I am not the most talented writer and when I started my blog English was my third language (not even my second one.) I finally took my blog seriously and started creating content and learning a lot. My first posts were not that great (actually they were pretty bad and you can still find them in the archives) but I worked my way to better grammar, a better writing style and better advice. Patience and perseverance were my allies in this journey. It took me almost three years to get where I am now but I have enjoyed every step of that journey.

当我开始开始写这个博客时，我没有投入太多的精力。我把许多东西都晒在这个网页上，然后期待着它能找到自己的读者并获得成功。当然了，这样的事从来没有发生过，我不是一个有天赋的写手，而且英语是我的第三语言（甚至还不是我的第二语言，）最终我还是开始认真对待我的博客，并开始写作，我学到了很多东西。我发布的头几篇博文都写得不好（实际上，它们写得都很糟糕，你可以从文章存档中找到它们），但是我刻苦练习，力求以到位的语法、更好的写作风格和更棒的建议写作。耐心和毅力是这次旅程中的两个好伴侣，我花了将近三年的时间才取得这个博客的成功，而且我很享受我所走过的每一步。

2. Loosen the reins.

2.松开束缚你的缰绳

Do you like to be in control of your life? I used to have a real problem with that because I just could not loosen up in life. I had to have everything just the way I planned; I had to be #1 all the time (your typical description of an over-achiever.)

你想成为你命运的主人吗？这一问题过去常常困扰着我，因为有些事我就是放不下。我过却常常希望一切事情都如我所计划的那样；我过去常常希望自己总是第一名（就如你对于超级成功人士的那种典型描述）。

The trick about life that I’ve learned is that we are never in full control of our lives. While we can try our best to be the best we can be sometimes things just happen. They just do.

我从生活这场魔术中所感悟到的就是我们无法全面地掌控自己的生活。而我们所能做的事就是尽我们所能做最好的自己，然后好事就发生了。生活就是这样的。

I have learned to enjoy my life this very moment and not to worry about things that I have no control over. I am grateful for what I have right now and while I make plans for the future I still make sure that I can enjoy every moment of my life now, not 10 or 20 years from now.

我已经学会了享受生活中的每一个瞬间并不再为超出我掌控范围的事而担忧。我为我自己所拥有的一切心怀感激，当然我还在为未自己来做计划，我很确信的一点就是我很享受当下的每一分每一秒而不是十年或二十年后的日子。

I do not have to be # 1 anymore.

我没有必要总去争夺第一名。

I do not have to be a superwoman all the time.

我没有必要强迫自己时刻去成为一个“超女”。

I do not have to leap over hurdles to be happy and content.

我没有必要非要跨越障碍才能感受到开心与自得。

I have to remind myself constantly that I need to slow down in life and savor every moment. It helps me and it will help any other person on this planet, I am sure.

我得时刻地告诫自己得放慢生活的脚步并让生活中的分分秒秒都变得多姿多彩。这样子做给我带来了许多帮助，而且我深信它也会帮助到许许多多其他的人。

3. Accept who you are.

3.接纳你自己

The biggest discovery that any of us can make is discovering who we really are. A lot of times we try to be somebody else because we want to portray a particular image in life. No matter how much you try that, this “fake” personality will never work out and you will never be able to feel at peace and in balance with yourself.

我们每个人所能做出的最伟大的发现就是发现自我。很多时候我们想成为另一个人，因为我们想让自己在生活中扮演另一个独特的角色。不论你多么努力地去为此做出努力，对这个“虚假”的人格的追求都不会成功，而且你也无法感觉到内心的平静与平和。

I have always been fascinated by extroverts – people who feel at ease in any surrounding and can communicate with anybody. I am an introvert by nature and though I always knew that, I tried to change that part about me. The harder I tried, the more miserable I felt.

我一直都很敬仰对那些能够在任何情况下与任何人欢乐畅谈的性格外向的人，我天生就是个性格内向的人，我一直以来都知道这点，我尝试去改变我身上的这部分自我。但是，我越是这样去做，我越是感到痛苦。

When I gave up my attempts and accepted who I was (basically, a nerd) I started feeling so much better. This discovery made me realize my strengths and feel confident around strangers and generally in any situation. Yes, I am not a social butterfly but I am also not the one who will sit in the darkest corner of the room during a party.

当我放弃了这种尝试而去接纳我自己（书呆子）的时候，我感觉好多了。这个发现让我意识到了我自己的长处，并且让我在与陌生人相处时感觉更有自信。没错，我不是交际花，但我也不是那个在聚会中独自一人呆坐在黑暗角落中的那个人。

4. Listen to your gut.

4.听从你的直觉。

One of the best skills that a person can learn is listening to him/herself. Listening to yourself will help you make friends with your body, it will help you use your intuition and your potential to its fullest. The “gut feeling” can be the voice of God talking to you, it can be your unconsciousness or it can be both.

我们所能学到的最最棒的一个技巧之一就是听从自己内心的呼唤。听从你自己的心声能够帮助你去结实志同道合的朋友，也会帮助你去充分地利用自己的直觉和潜能。这种“直觉”就像是你与上帝之间的对话，它也许是无意识的或是有意无意各占一半。

I have finally managed to take control of my weight when I started listening to my body. Instead of dieting and exercising like crazy I started making food choices that were healthier and tasted good to my body ( warning: chocolate cake and chicken wings taste good to my mouth but my body does not share this love.) I have also changed my exercise regime to fit my personality (I like solo exercise that is why running and Pilates are my top picks.) As long as I listen to my body, I feel great and I do not have any weight problems.

当我开始听从自己的身体的声音时我才成功地控制住了我的体重。我没有刻意去节食也没有去拼命地锻炼，取而代之的是选择对我的身体来说更健康更好吃的食物（警告：巧克力蛋糕和鸡翅吃起来味道不错，但是我的身体并不喜欢这种美味）。同样我也改变了我的锻炼计划以符合我的个性（我喜欢单人运动，所以这就是为什么慢跑和普拉提是我的首选）。只要我听从我自己的身体所发出的声音，我就会感觉很棒，而且我也不再有任何超重问题。

I am not the only one who was using intuition to make decisions in life. George Washington solved his most difficult problems during the Revolutionary War with intuition. His orderlies were instructed not to disturb him while he relaxed and intuited decisions. Actually according to one theory the founding fathers valued intuition so much that they have tried to remind us about it on the back of the dollar bill. The picture of the unfinished pyramid with an eye above it represents how important intuition (the eye) is in developing ideas or making decisions (completing the pyramid.) (This example came from the book ThinkerToys by Michael Michalko.)

我并不是惟一一个使用直觉去做出决定的人。乔治华盛顿就是运用直觉才在革命战争中解决了许多重大问题。当他在放松状态下运用直觉去做出决定时，他的传令兵不允许去打扰他。有一种理论就说，我们的国父是如此看重直觉的力量以至于他们将此印在美元钞票的背面来提醒我们。未完工的金字塔上方有一只眼睛，暗示着直觉（眼睛）在孕育想法和做出决定（完成金字塔）中的重要作用。

5. Always challenge yourself.

5.时常挑战自己。

When we get comfortable with a certain way of life we get lazy. This laziness keeps us from growing, from trying new things and from living a more balanced and happier life.

当我们过惯了舒适的生活后，我们就会变得懒惰。正是这种懒散才让我们不再进步、不再尝试新鲜事物、不再去追求更平衡、更快乐的生活。

One of the challenges that I place in front of me is to learn something new constantly. It keeps my life exciting, it opens new business opportunities and it makes me a more fun person.

我时常摆在自己面前的挑战就是不停地去学习一些新鲜的东西。它让我的生活充满惊喜，它为我打开了新的商业机遇，它也让我成为了一个更完备的人。

When I still lived in Ukraine I found a job in a web design company. I was hired because of my English skills but words like “hosting,” “html” and “ftp” sounded like a foreign language to me. During the first few days I was scared of everything because I didn’t understand what was going on there and what I had to do. In order to feel comfortable I decided to learn HTML and go through all the basic web tutorials that I could find. In a month I could create a simple site, I was comfortable talking to customers and I actually could guide them through the process of setting up a website and making basic customizations (something that seemed like rocket science to me at first.) That was a huge personal triumph.

当我还居住在乌克兰时，我在一家网站设计公司找到了一份工作。我之所以会被雇佣是因为我的英文水平比较好，而不是那些诸如“虚拟主机”、“html”、“ftp”等对我而言就像是外语的专业词汇。在头几天里我对一切都充满了恐惧，因为我不知道这里在搞些什么名堂，也不知道我该去做什么。为了让自己感觉自在些，我决定去学习HTML并把我所能找到的一切基础网络教程都看一遍。一个月过后，我就能够独立创建简单的网站，和客户交谈让我感到很愉悦，而且我还可以为他们提供创建网站所需的指导和基础的自定义设置（这些东西一开始对我而言就像是火箭技术那样）。这真是一个非常巨大的个人胜利。

I use things that I learned on my own much more than things that I learned in college. Actually now I understand what one of my professors always told us “The goal of a college education is not to stuff information into your head but to teach you how to find any information when you need it.”

我所运用的知识更多的是由我亲身实践而来，而非是我在大学里学到的东西。直到现在我才理解了我的一个教授过去常常说的那句话“大学教育的目标并不是把一大堆信息装进你的头脑，而是教会你如何去找到你所需要的信息。”

It does not matter how old you are because you can always challenge yourself and learn something new.

不论你年纪有多大都无关紧要，因为你可以常常通过挑战自己来学到许多新鲜的东西。

These life lessons help me keep my cool in life and live in balance. Can you share your life lessons with me? Please leave a comment below and share this article with your friends if you liked it. You can also write an article with your life lessons on your blog and leave a comment with the link. I’ll be sure to share your article on my blog.

这些人生感悟帮助我过上了精彩而又平衡的生活。你愿意和我分享你自己的人生感悟吗？那就请你在下方留下评论，如果你喜欢这篇文章的话，就把它分享给你的朋友们吧。你也可以就此话题写一篇博文然后在评论里留下此文的链接。我很乐意在我的博客中分享你的文章。

Keep it balanced!

保持生活平衡！

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