蚌埠旅行社价目表:Self-confidence and success

                                                                 Self-confidence and success


With the above;


     Not because these things difficult to do, we lose confidence, it is because we lack self-confidence, why they make these things difficult to achieve.

    Understanding and self-confidence is an attitude, but also through people's style to performance. Whether followers or leaders are eager to have that ability, faith, noble character of the people. Followers and his men hope that their dream of leadership to achieve the goal, as long as you have a firm attitude, your confidence will be able to infect them, they will place their hopes in your body, and closely follow you, Your self-confidence and momentum to be able to convince them that: "I can create miracles for you!" leaders and supervisors also believe that those who have faith and confidence of the people. As long as you firmly believe you have all the goals, it will make your boss believe you can help him achieve this goal. Lack of confidence of people is not easy to be trusted, no one is willing to let a lack of confidence to bear responsibility, they give a "support is not up fools" impression, but also a real lack of confidence created numerous "fools."

     Psychologists in the statistics of students found in the IQ (intelligence quotient) under the same circumstances, self-confidence of students in school than students who are not confident. Psychologists in explaining "why the same genius, some successful, some not successful," this phenomenon, said: "No successful self-awareness is low, and thus vulnerable to outside influence. Particularly negative impact in the outside world under They will have a high degree of anxiety, and thus poor performance, but also, there is one important reason is lack of self-motivation. "Thus, the Western psychologists believe that" successful people can actively self-awareness (confidence), which is the achievements One driving force is the potential for a high degree of intelligence. "confidence is the successful development of weapons, Welch called it" the only weapon to overcome difficulties. " Numerous cases have proved self-confidence can create miracles. In 1960, Nixon and Kennedy's televised debate, Nixon did not show Americans want the president's confidence, and there is no performance of the John F. Kennedy and Richard Nixon shaking hands at the last minute, self-confidence to put Nixon's hand on his hand, the He's such a super-confident to meet the American voters the kind of mythical power of the president's desire.

     However, the lack of confidence are not always humble, and the other with low self-awareness, a lack of confidence is pride. Many people mistakenly think that is arrogant self-confidence too far, in fact not the case. Self-confidence is an objective, positive understanding of self-generated, based on, but pride is wrong in the subjective understanding of themselves, proud of the people do not necessarily self-confidence. A lot of pride is the one due to lack of satisfaction with their desire and positive way with the other extreme - "proud" to cover up their inner weakness. Confident people can fully understand their value, has a firm self-belief. Who not only have a high degree of self-confidence self-esteem, and they more respect. They also have a sense of inner security and protection, the inner source of strength so that they do not set off the outside world and compared to find themselves. The pride of the people lack this ability, they have astonishing one-way outward divergent ways of thinking, the lack of a correct understanding of their own, they need to support their own weakness in the outside world to find the inner strength of the world, they are often in and Comparing others to survive, you need to highlight the extreme of self, exaggerated self, in exaggerating the weakness of others to be found on the self-satisfaction and faith. Unfortunately, they never look for from their own inner world crux of the problem, and lost all his own push to the social system or human relations. How could they succeed?

    Is not difficult to be inspired from the observation of failure in a large number of "underappreciated" people, how they perceive their own careers in the stagnant pool of stagnant water in it? They are either blind, groundless boast, attributed his defeat to the outside world are not able to recognize their genius, as if as long as they occupy a position of authority to be able to create wonders of the world; either keep those successful "no just no ability" of the "lucky" to belittle. Proud of the performance of a low emotional quotient, one of those paranoid behave childish pride, radical, irrational, arrogant, cynical, attitude and hunger in their children a camel to seek self-expression is not rational so that they can not harmonious, happy to deal with relationships, which often resulted in their "embattled" and a "loner."

Therefore, some self-confidence and success, and lack of confidence and pride and success missed.

Proposal to provide self-confidence:

(1) those who believe that life go down the self-confidence.

(2) must have the courage to face his fears and dare to bear the fear.

(3) allow only those positive thoughts in my mind there.

(4) a list of your strengths, and believe it is your wealth.

(5) make you feel confident wearing clothes.

(6) the courage to say "no."

(7) embrace the people's praise.

(8) and others look to the eyes.

(9) Keep the head erect, walk and sit never allow yourself to relax, use confident body language.

(10) with a firm, decisive, enthusiastic tone.

(11) Do not self-deprecating, do not say no ability to help themselves and others, do not be overly modest.

(12) Do not arrogant, do not belittle others, do not complain about everything in life.